Sisters’ Profiles

• Eye Colour: dark brown
• Hair Colour: black
• Height: 5ft 4in
• Build: medium
• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies: I am a quiet person outside but when I am at home I like to laugh and have fun. I am generally an easy-going person except when it comes to deen, then I am very strict. In my spare time I like to listen to Islamic talks, I also enjoy teaching my children their deen. I love to watch Quran recitations with translations and I enjoy cooking and baking with the children.
• Favourite Islamic Speakers: Ustadh Abdul Rahman Hassan, Shaykh Abu Suhaib Al Bassam, shaykh Abu Usamah At-Thahabi, Mufti Muneer, Shaykh Abdurrazzaq al Badr and Shaykh Sulayman al-Ruhayli.
• Favourite Islamic Books: Tafseer of Ibn Kathir, AL Bidaayah Wannihaaya, Seeds of admonishment and reform-Ibn al-Jawzi.
• Do you wear the headscarf? yes
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? yes
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? Occasionally
• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? None
• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam? I have a good understanding of the deen, currently studying Arabic and seeking knowledge at home through books and online.
• How long have you been practising? Since childhood
• Level of “secular” education? GCSE
• Are you currently working? If so, where? NO
• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible. NO
• How soon are you looking to marry? As soon as the right person is found inshaaAllah.
• Are you willing to relocate? yes
• Describe yourself in 3 words? Patient, hardworking and kind.
• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have: I always try to make a good thing out of a bad situation, I am optimistic, and I strive for a happy comforting atmosphere at home.
• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have: I can be a perfectionist, at times I can get overly anxious and I am a bit indecisive.
• Is your family practising or are they cultural? Practising
• Information about your family – siblings etc? I have both parents still with me Alhamdullilah, 4 brothers and 4 sisters.
• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning? Reading at an ok level, still learning.
• What languages can you speak? English and Bengali
• Level of usage of social media? I only use Instagram but just to keep up with Islamic events for my son to attend and recipes.
• Do you pluck your eyebrows? No
• Do you wear makeup when you go out? No
• Do you watch movies / listen to music? No
• Can you cook? Yes
• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES None Alhamdulillah

• What age range are you looking for? 30 - 50
• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse? Religion, good tempered and financially stable.
• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must? Must have a proper beard.
• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion? I believe trousers above the ankles are obligatory.
• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for? Very practising
• Give 3 personality traits that you look for? Patient, kind and honest.
• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand? Lazy, angry and grumpy.
• Are you open to someone who has been married before? yes
• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage? no
• Would you consider a divorcee with children? Yes
• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him? no
• Would you consider someone who watches movies? no
• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this? He should have a high level of gheerah. A man should not want the females of his household to be seen by non mahram unnecessarily, he must feel a protective jealously.
• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity? yes
• Would you consider living with your inlaws? No (exception can be made for female only)
• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for? 5 years
• Would you marry a revert? yes
• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues? no
• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?

• Eye Colour: Brown
• Hair Colour: Black
• Height: 5ft 5
• Build: Slim
• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies:
  I have always been reserved/shy in nature, but have matured over the last few years and become more open. I have always held religion in high regard all my life, esp in terms of hijab and prayers, but have been affected by low imaan and I’m somewhat easily influenced. I love nature and the outdoors, I love visiting national parks when it’s quiet. I avoid busy and noisy environments. I like to read books and articles. I dislike social media and having my picture taken (though I’m happy to exchange pictures if compatible as it saves time on both ends). I love children, I look forward to having my own children and I hope to homeschool them. I have been teaching my class of girls at the Masjid for almost 5years, and it’s just become part of who I am. I love to listen to and read the Quran daily.
• Favourite Islamic Speakers: Don’t really listen to lectures lately
• Favourite Islamic Books: The Quran, Kitab At Tawheed, Explanation of The Three Fundamental Principles, Sealed Nectar, 40 Ahadeeth of Imam Nawawi, Description of the Prophets Prayer, Riyad As Saliheen, Adab Al Murfad
• Do you wear the headscarf? Yes
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? Yes
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? No
• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? Maybe missed a few times due to travel, but I always make them up so don’t miss them completely
• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam? I am Athari in Aqeedah. I have been taught the authentic fiqh of acts of worship such as wudu, salah, sawm, hijab, but don’t follow a specific madhab. I try to read the tafsir and translation of the Quran often. I like to read ahadith and know more about the Prophet by reading biographies and books on the sunnah. InshaAllah I hope to memorise more of the Quran, memorise Ahadith and apply them to my life, I really want to learn to speak and understand Arabic fluently.
• How long have you been practising? 6 years
• Level of “secular” education? Degree in English
• Are you currently working? If so, where? Yes in a Madrassah local to me.
• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible. No
• How soon are you looking to marry? ASAP
• Are you willing to relocate? Yes
• Describe yourself in 3 words? Thoughtful, caring and simple
• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have: level headed, considerate of others, easy going
• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have: procrastination, frustration, easily distracted
• Is your family practising or are they cultural? Practising
• Information about your family – siblings etc? My brothers help run Masaajid in Stoke
• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning? Yes but always learning/improving
• What languages can you speak? English, Punjabi
• Level of usage of social media? Only an anonymous inactive twitter account for news and current affairs
• Do you pluck your eyebrows? No
• Do you wear makeup when you go out? No
• Do you watch movies / listen to music? Occasional movie
• Can you cook? Yes
• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES. No Alhamdulilah

• What age range are you looking for? 23 - 35
• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse? Religious, good adab(manners and character), serious about marriage (please don’t contact me if you’re not ready)
• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must? None shaven beard feesabililah, doesn’t matter if it’s short or long
• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion? Wallahu alam if it’s obligatory or not, as far as I know the Prophet (saw) kept his trousers above his ankles and I would like my husband to emulate him. But it’s not a deal breaker as I have greater concerns that I fear in a husband.
• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for? I want someone well grounded in the deen, someone that can lead me and my children towards a better Islamic lifestyle. I want my children to memorize the Quran, I wish to homeschool them and for that I need a supportive, strong minded husband whose going to push me.
• Give 3 personality traits that you look for? Religious minded, easy going and humble
• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand? Unreasonable, arrogant, doesn’t know how to treat a women/seeks a maid rather than a companion
• Are you open to someone who has been married before? Yes
• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage? Don’t know
• Would you consider a divorcee with children? Yes
• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him? No
• Would you consider someone who watches movies? Yes
• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this? He should care if I’m displaying myself for the whole world, he should care for my well being and safety.
• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity? Yes
• Would you consider living with your inlaws? No
• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for? Minimum 1/2 years
• Would you marry a revert? Yes
• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues? No
• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?

I hereby declare that everything I have said in this form is the truth to the best of my knowledge and I swear by Allah that I have not lied knowingly or willingly. By using this service, I agree to the statements above. Yes

BarakAllahu Feek

• Eye Colour: Black
• Hair Colour: Black
• Height: 5’4
• Build: slim

• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies: I am very friendly and easy going and take life as it comes, placing full trust in Allah and his plans for me.

• Favourite Islamic Speakers:

• Favourite Islamic Books: For the last year I have been attending an Islamic studies course at the local masjdi,  my recitation of Quran is not what I desired to be so been taking lessons to correct my Tajweed. In Sha Allah short term goal is to learn Arabic so that I can establish better connection with book of Allah…

• Do you wear the headscarf? Yes, alhamdulliah
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? No but have been thinking about it
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? No

• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? I do struggle with my Fajr.

• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam? Basic but I am attending courses and lectures at the local masjdi on regular basics.

• How long have you been practising? about 2 years now although born Muslim.

• Level of “secular” education? BSc in Business and Politics

• Are you currently working? If so, where? Not working at present

• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible. I am a single parent so have been thinking of working part time but if future husband is in a position to support me financially then I have no real desire to work and will spend my time and effort into learning the deen In Sha Allah.

• How soon are you looking to marry? When I find suitable person to marry In Sha Allah.

• Are you willing to relocate? Not sure

• Describe yourself in 3 words? Honest, loyal and will give things 100%.

• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have: Organised, determined and go get type of person.
• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have - talk less and listen better….

• Is your family practising or are they cultural? Alhamdulliah practising.

• Information about your family – siblings etc? 4 brother and 2 sisters and alhamdulliah all married and settled into their homes.

• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning? Learning

• What languages can you speak? Urdu and Punjabi

• Level of usage of social media? Not much at all, old fashioned in that way lol

• Do you pluck your eyebrows? yes

• Do you wear makeup when you go out? I generally wear just lipstick and eye liner and don’t cake myself up lol

• Do you watch movies / listen to music? We have a TV at home and kids watch but I myself have lost interest in TV. No music at all which I stopped listening to about 2 years ago.

• Can you cook? Alhamdulliah, I can.

• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES - No

• What age range are you looking for? 38-45

• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse? Good at communicating and listening.

• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must? I am willing to consider either.

• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion? No but it is very strong Sunnah.

• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for? Moderate

• Give 3 personality traits that you look for? Clam, considerate and patient

• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand? Rude, lacking of understanding,

• Are you open to someone who has been married before? yes

• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage? No

• Would you consider a divorcee with children? yes

• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him? Not sure

• Would you consider someone who watches movies? Yes, as long as it’s not a daily habit…

• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this?

• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity? yes

• Would you consider living with your inlaws? No

• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for? 1year

• Would you marry a revert? yes

• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues?No

If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?

• Eye Colour: Light brown
• Hair Colour: Dark brown
• Height: 5”5 approx
• Build: Average

• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies: I am a friendly, easy-going individual who is able along with everyone. I take a lot of interest in Islamic medicine/Hijamah/Natural treatments. I also love taking care of my appearance and I like to look presentable, I like keeping clean as cleanliness is half of emaan, Alhamdulilah. When I have the chance, I like playing sports such as badminton, cricket and football (not as regular as I should be in this.. fitness is key!). Lastly, I love a bit of an adventure, as I like to explore different places and going out and pondering over Allah’s beautiful creation.

• Favourite Islamic Speakers: Abu Ibraheem Hussnayn, Sheikh Saleh Fawzaan, Sheikh Waseeullah Abbas, Moosa Richardson.

• Favourite Islamic Books: The Prophetic Medicine by Ibn Al Qayyim Al Jawzziyyah, Book of Tawheed by Sheikh Saleh Fawzaan

• Do you wear the headscarf? Yes
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? Yes
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? Yes, not gloves though.

• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? Not missed any.

• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam? I have a sound knowledge of Islam and understand the importance of avoiding shirk and staying away from all types of bidah. I like to stick to the methodology of the Salaf and do not take knowledge from any unknown sources. I would like to study more about my deen by attending lectures/classes in shaa Allah (I do not attend any at present).

• How long have you been practising? Since 2012.

• Level of “secular” education? Currently studying last year of Bachelor of Arts degree in English Language and literature, with The Open University.

• Are you currently working? If so, where?

• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible. I would like to if it is in a halal environment.

• How soon are you looking to marry? Flexible

• Are you willing to relocate? Yes, to an Islamic country, in shaa Allah.

• Describe yourself in 3 words? Easy-going, enthusiastic and caring.

• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have: I like to be firm upon what is right, being determined to do something and always speak up for the truth.

• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have: sometimes I struggle to wake up for Fajr, I tend to stress a lot over the smallest of things and I lack confidence at times.

• Is your family practising or are they cultural? Yes, they keep away from all types of Shirk, Bidah and try to practise Islam to the best of their ability. I come from a family who prays 5 times a day and fasts, gives charity and so on. Alhamdulilah. No, my family are not cultural and are quite open minded.

• Information about your family – siblings etc? I come from a small family who try to practise Islam to the best of their ability, they have raised me in a wonderful manner by always giving importance of Islam, salah, fasting etc.. before anything else. My grandad, May Allah have mercy on him, one of the trustees of Markaz Ahlul Hadith, he spent his life adhering to Quran and sunnah and teaching tawheed to us, as a family and many other people. I have 3 younger siblings.

• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning? Yes, I can but would like to learn more about tajweed in detail.
• What languages can you speak? English, Punjabi and I can understand/speak basic Arabic however, I would love to improve and become fluent, in shaa Allah.

• Level of usage of social media? Not much.

• Do you pluck your eyebrows? No

• Do you wear makeup when you go out? No

• Do you watch movies / listen to music? No

• Can you cook? Yes

• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES I wear glasses for short sightedness and I have slight eczema on my hands.

• What age range are you looking for? 25-27

• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse? practising, honest and loving.

• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must? Full length, natural would be ideal in shaa Allah.

• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion? Yes, always above the ankles.

• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for? I would like for him to be a bit more knowledgeable than myself in shaa Allah.

• Give 3 personality traits that you look for? Caring, truthful and down to earth.

• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand? Lying, ignorant and unfaithfulness.

• Are you open to someone who has been married before? No

• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage? No

• Would you consider a divorcee with children? No

• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him? No, never.

• Would you consider someone who watches movies? Never.

• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this? A man should have a very high level of gheerah over his women because if he fails to have this, he is a big dayooth. I cannot stand men like this, do not let your women sell themselves to other men. I cannot stand free-mixing either, so this is something my potential spouse should consider.

• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity? Yes, I would prefer an Arab in shaa Allah.

• Would you consider living with your inlaws? No

• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for? A bit longer than myself in shaa Allah

• Would you marry a revert? I have not considered that.

• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues? No

• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below? I would like my potential spouse to have a good education/job and to be serious about the deen and marriage but at the same time be out-going, kind, loyal, caring and affectionate towards his wife. I would like for us to grow together and helping each other when in need and being supportive through rough times in shaa Allah.

• Eye Colour: Brown
• Hair Colour: Black
• Height: 4ft 10inch
• Build: Slim

• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies:

I love exercising although do go through phases where I lapse. Overall however, I am very active. I have an interest in natural skincare, castles/museums, reading fictional books, photography (mostly landscapes, nature, buildings), video games, meals out with friends and family, arts and crafts, occasionally watching tv shows and films, writing/journalling and generally learning and trying new things and visiting new places.

Personality wise I would describe myself as someone who is generally outgoing, chatty and sociable however I also like having time to myself and need my own space. I am quite a private person.

I am assertive when needed and will speak my mind however will always strive to do so in a respectful way. My parents have brought me up to be independent and have the confidence to always try and do things myself rather than rely on others so I am confident and mature in that sense. Having said that I think it’s important to always keep that ‘inner child’ side of your personality and know how to have a laugh and a joke with the right people.

I am keen to travel after marriage. I would also be interested in exploring the possibly of doing short-term volunteer work abroad if circumstances permit and my husband comes with me and is something that he would also be interested in doing.

• Favourite Islamic Speakers: I don’t listen to many talks and do not have favourite speakers

• Favourite Islamic Books:

The Ideal Muslimah is a great book as it is extremely thorough and covers all important life stages.

• Do you wear the headscarf? Yes
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? Yes
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? No and no intention to wear one after marriage.

• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? N/A

• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam?

My level of knowledge is basic. I strive to follow Islam according to the Quran and Sunnah and am not a cultural person. I would like to attend more classes at Green Lane Masjid to increase my knowledge although many classes occur during the weekday so can be difficult but also I guess because it is something that I need to be more active in giving time to. I have worked on and off on an Islamic course delivered by the Islamic Online University which was set up by Bilal Phillips which I have found really useful. I can be quite wary about attending many talks as it can be difficult to know whether the speaker is legitimate or not.

• How long have you been practising? Approximately 5 years

• Level of “secular” education?

Psychology degree, interest in potentially doing a Masters in the future if finances permit.

• Are you currently working? If so, where?

Yes, Research within the NHS.

• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible.

I would like to work after marriage however if possible, provided this does not put financial strain on the husband, I would like to have the option to work part time if I want to so that I have time to manage household duties and increase my knowledge of Islam, attend lectures etc. I would also like to explore the possibility of fostering.

If I have children of my own I would like to have the option to not work when they are very young and only work part time when they are a bit older if I feel confident that this does not affect their upbringing and there is someone trustworthy to look after them such as parents/in-laws.

• How soon are you looking to marry?

My preferred approach would be to have the nikah quite quickly once compatibility has been established and avoid unnecessary meetings/chats etc. before marriage. However, I would prefer having the walima, move in together etc. after a bit of time of getting to know each other better for instance 6 months as I think this would make the adjustment period much easier. I am open to other options depending on the individual’s circumstances.

• Are you willing to relocate? Yes

• Describe yourself in 3 words?

1. Independent
2. Confident
3. Funny

• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have:

1. Organised
2. Hard working
3. Caring

• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have

1. Sensitive (although I am not sure if I am more so in comparison to other women!)
2. Can be a bit uptight (not very laidback)
3. Not always very good at communicating verbally

I can certainly work on the second and third point but being sensitive is just who I am and I can’t help that.

• Is your family practising or are they cultural?

My parents pray five times a day, fast etc. however do tend to lean towards cultural practices and attitudes.

• Information about your family – siblings etc?

I have one older brother and one older sister who are both married Alhamdulilah. I live with my parents and two younger brothers.

• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning?

I have done a couple of tajweed courses and currently trying to find a new course as think that it is useful to refresh on this every so often.

• What languages can you speak? Fluent English, enough Bengali in the Sylheti dialect to get by.

• Level of usage of social media? I use Facebook and Twitter to keep up to date with offers in my favourite shops. I use Instagram to share photos and look at photos posted by others as I have an interest in photography as previously mentioned. I do not use social media for the ‘typical’ reasons that people use it i.e. do not post pictures of myself or share any personal aspects of my life, nor use it to interact with friends or strangers.

• Do you pluck your eyebrows? No

• Do you wear makeup when you go out? No

• Do you watch movies / listen to music? Occasionally watch movies and TV shows

• Can you cook? My cooking skills are probably 4 out of 10 mostly because I have never lived away from home and not had a need to.

• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES

I have bruxism which is a tendency to grind my teeth. I wear a bite guard at night to help alleviate this. This isn’t exactly a health problem as such but it can lead to migraines, ear ache and other aches and pains.

Past jinn/magic issues quite a few years ago but no problems now Alhamdulilah.

• What age range are you looking for? Ideally 27-35

• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse?

1. Someone who is independent and able to look after themselves. That is not to say that I think that a wife should not look after her husband and vice versa, however I have seen too many instances where the relationship between the husband and wife looks like that of a mother and child with the husband appearing to be completely incompetent and incapable of looking after themselves and doing the most basic of things. It is as if they have gone straight from being molly-coddled by their mother to being molly-coddled by their wife which is extremely off-putting. People always say women look for love and affection from their spouse and men want respect- I think it can be very difficult to respect someone and have any faith that they can be the man/the protector in the relationship if they act completely helpless and aren’t even able to think or do anything independently.

2. I am looking for someone who has the maturity and strength to be a leader within the household so that they can support both themselves, their wife and their children to be pious and practise Islam according to the Quran and Sunnah especially in this difficult and challenging climate.

3. Someone who has a gentle, good humoured and playful nature with those close to them whilst being serious in matters relating to the religion and being mindful in terms of how they conduct themselves amongst non-mahrams.

• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must?

No preference- not everyone can grow a long beard. As long as it is a beard according to Sunnah.

• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion? My understanding is that this is an obligatory for males?

• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for? Someone who matches or is similar to what I have put in the other sections of the form.

• Give 3 personality traits that you look for? Honest, strong-willed, caring

• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand?

1. Someone who does not have the maturity and sense to live according to their means i.e. being stingy or over extravagant
2. Laziness
3. Hot tempered

• Are you open to someone who has been married before? Not sure, would depend on the circumstances for example if they were widowed but ideally would prefer not to as I haven’t been married before.

• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage? No

• Would you consider a divorcee with children? No

• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him? No

• Would you consider someone who watches movies? Yes

• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this?

I think it is important to have gheerah and take this responsibility seriously however, I think sometimes it can go to extremes and be a matter of control, mistrust and insecurity on the man’s part as opposed to actual protective jealousy.

So for instance I would not expect a Muslim man to be accepting of their wife being put up on stage for the world to take pictures on their wedding day, or chatting alone and unnecessarily with his friends. However, I think to expect a woman to never speak to another man is unrealistic and excessive. Or for instance looking through her phone messages, controlling her every move or needing to know exactly where she is at all times. I think mutual trust and respect is vital in a marriage.

Overall however, I think men can often be very protective when it comes to men that are strangers but overly relaxed when the man is a relative or a close friend when in actual fact they are the greater danger. Therefore, I think it is important that they understand that male relatives such as the brother-in-law etc. are not mahrams for the wife. The husband should therefore make sure that they support and help facilitate them not being alone or spending excessive, unnecessary time together.

• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity? I would be open to considering this however would be easier for me if they were of the same ethnicity.

• Would you consider living with your inlaws?

Yes I would consider this if there was an actual need for example he only has one parent who therefore relies on him for companionship as they no longer have their own husband/wife. Or elderly parents who might require a lot of help and support around the house or there is a risk of them falling etc.

Please note- I would only consider this provided there aren’t any non-mahrams living in the household. It would also depend on whether I could see myself getting on with the parents and us living in harmony which can be difficult if for instance our lifestyles, upbringing and expectations are completely different- I don’t want to go in to a situation where I cause arguments and fights between family members. Furthermore, if the in-laws live in an environment where they have Star Plus on blast 24/7, have taweez in the house, have other bidah going on, then I will not consider living in that environment.

I am not in support of living with in-laws just for the sake of culture and there ends up being 15 people in one tiny household all relying on their one daughter-in-law/sister-in-law to essentially act as a maid for them even though everyone is physically and mentally capable of looking after themselves, and deep down inside even the husband wants to move out and have his own privacy but doesn’t have the backbone to tell his family and worries about “what people will say”. I think it’s also important to note that we all have a duty to look after our parents therefore whether you are a man or a woman you should be doing that, not just passing on that responsibility to your wife.

• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for? 2 years

• Would you marry a revert? Yes I would consider it however Bangladeshi background would be easier for me.

• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues? No, if it is in the past then that is fine but if they have current issues then I would not consider it.

• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?

I will not consider someone who works in a bank or other riba based type establishments or someone who smokes.

I am keen to increase my knowledge of Islam so would want someone who is supportive of me attending lectures and studying etc. It would also be great if the person knew Arabic or was learning as this is something that I would really like to do. Someone who would consider making hijrah if circumstances permit. I am aware that I have mentioned quite a lot of desired characteristics and it is a bit of a wishlist. I am just highlighting as much as possible so you hopefully get a good understanding of what sort of person I am however I would obviously consider potential proposals who does not tick every box.

• Eye Colour: brown
• Hair Colour: brown
• Height: 5’9
• Build: slim

• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies: I can genuinely say seeking Knowledge is what I enjoy most, however in my free time I enjoy cooking and chilling with my family.

• Favourite Islamic Speakers: Sheikh Salih Al Fawzan and Sheikh Sulayman Ar Ruhayli

• Favourite Islamic Books:

Description of the Prophets prayer by Muhammed Nasirudeen Al Albani, Attributes of a righteous wife by Shaykh Abdur Razzaq Ibn Abdul Muhsin Al-Abbaad, The signs sefore the day of judgement by Ibn Kathir, disciplining the soul by Ibn Al Jawzi, when the moon split by Saif ur Rahman Mubarakpuri.

• Do you wear the headscarf? Yes
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? Jilbab
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? Often wear Niqab (intend to wear full time) occasionally wear gloves

• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? Never (unless due to a legitimate Shar'i excuse)

• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam? I've made an active effort to seek knowledge Alhamdullilah and have covered fundemental basic books. I spend most of my time attending lessons and trying to increase my level of ‘ilm.

• How long have you been practising?

Almost 2 years

• Level of “secular” education?

A Levels

• Are you currently working? If so, where?

I tutor young children in English and maths

• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible.

Ideally I believe the woman's role is to be the homemaker and her first priority should be this. I would definitely not want to be working when I have children in sha Allah because I believe a mother should be at home giving her children the correct Tarbiyyah rather than working.

• How soon are you looking to marry?

Within a year ideally ( but there's no specific time frame, whenever Allah wills)

• Are you willing to relocate?

Yes

• Describe yourself in 3 words?

Genuine, funny, caring

• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have:
• I enjoy helping others
• I don't get offended easily (not overly emotional)
• Mature when nessecary but also chilled when it's the time to be

• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have
• I can be an overthinker
• Sometimes sarcastic
• Straight-forward

• Is your family practising or are they cultural? They aren't practicing (I give them Naseeha as much as I can and try to lead by example through my actions) however they're not cultural either (not a typical Pakistani family so to speak, mother is British born and both my parents are quite young therefore are more open to receiving Naseeha than very cultural parents, who might not be)

• Information about your family – siblings etc? One older brother

• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning? Yes, Alhamdullilah. My Tajweed isn't perfect but I've spent some time now studying Tajweed and Makharij and continue to practice so that I can aim to perfect my Tajweed.

• What languages can you speak?

English and Urdu (to a decent level) I can understand Punjabi but can't speak it.

• Level of usage of social media?

I have a online start up which I run on social media which means I keep that updated often however I wouldn't say I'm addicted to social media, I much prefer chilling with family and holding acutal conversations rather than constantly being on my phone.

• Do you pluck your eyebrows?

No, Alhamdullilah.

• Do you wear makeup when you go out?

No, Alhamdullilah.

• Do you watch movies / listen to music?

No, Alhamdullilah.

• Can you cook?

Yes, Alhamdullilah. I continue to learn new recipes as often as possible as well.

• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES

No, Alhamdullilah.

• What age range are you looking for?

22 - 27

• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse? Firm upon the Qur'an and Sunnah upon the understanding of the Salaf as Salih / Some sort of level of 'ilm with an active effort to keep increasing his level of knowledge / Financially stable
• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must?

A full beard and this is a must. If he trims his beard it's a problem.

• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion?

Yes.

• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for?

Follows the Qur'an and Sunnah upon the understanding of the salaf to the best of his ability. He's actively sought or currently seeks some level of knowledge. Full beard and garments above the ankle. Fulfills his wajibaat and avoids major sins.

• Give 3 personality traits that you look for?

Has gheerah, well-mannered and funny (when it's the time and place to be)

• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand?

Arrogance, laziness and a short temper

• Are you open to someone who has been married before?

No.

• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage?

No.

• Would you consider a divorcee with children?

No.

• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him?

Never.

• Would you consider someone who watches movies?

Never.

• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this? He should have a firm level of gheerah over his womenfolk and discourage them from Tabbaruj, if he's okay with his wife being plastered in makeup in public and sharing selfies all over social media for random men to see then I don't consider him to have gheerah.

• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity?

Depends,  however my initial preference is Pakistani

• Would you consider living with your inlaws?

If there was a financial issue preventing a seperate place to stay then I would consider it on a short term basis however ideally I would want to live seperately.

• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for?

Around 2 years

• Would you marry a revert?

No because the initial preference is that he is Pakistani

• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues?

No

• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?

He intends to do Hijra.

• Eye Colour: Brown
• Hair Colour: Black
• Height: 170 cm
• Build: Slim

• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies:

I am a science teacher, so I’m a geek when it comes to anything science related. I enjoy watching documentaries and TED talks.

I have a real thirst for seeking knowledge so will spend time learning more about the deen. I generally enjoy doing this through reading books.

I’d say I am a positive person and always work hard in every aspect of my life knowling that Allah has planned the best for me.

I gave been told that I have a good sense of humour, so I can a good laugh.

Through the mercy of Allah, I have a lot of sabr and always try to find the blessings in his plans.

I am soft hearted; however this does not mean I am a push-over.

• Favourite Islamic Speakers:
  • Shaykh Muhammad Ibn Al Uthaymeen
  • Shaykh Ibn Taymiyyah
  • Shaykh Abdul Ibn Wahaaab
  • Shaykh Abd Al Aziz Ibn Baz
  • Shaykh Al Albani
  • Imam Ibn Qayyim
  • Shaykh Saliah Al Fawzan
  • Shaykh Wasiullah Abbas
  • Mufti Muneer

• Favourite Islamic Books:
  • Usool Al Thalatha
  • The sealed nectar
  • Aisha- Resit Haylamaz
  • Inner dimensions of the prayer
  • Paragons of the Qur’an

• Do you wear the headscarf? Yes
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? Yes
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? No

• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer?

7 which I did Qadah for.

• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam?

I have studied Usool Al Thalatha with a student of knowledge from Medinah University and have recently received certified Ijaza from the university for my completion of the course.

Currently signed onto learning Arabic, but at a basic level.

• How long have you been practising?

Since I was 18

• Level of “secular” education?

I have an bachelors in Human Biology and a PGCE in Secondary science Biology.

• Are you currently working? If so, where?

I currently work as a science teacher in a girls only Islamic school.

• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible.

If my husband allows me, I would like to carry on teaching in a halal environment as there are many blessings in this job. After I have children I would like to pause teaching and focus my energy on raising my children.

• How soon are you looking to marry?

2018-2019

• Are you willing to relocate?

In sha Allah

• Describe yourself in 3 words?

Loyal, Patient and humorous

• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have:
  • Allah has blessed me with a lot of sabr
  • He has also blessed me with the ability to be very organised
  • I am very resilient and do not give up easily

• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have
  • I can overthink situations
  • I like things set in a certain way and can become frustrated when they are not.
  • I struggle to say no to helping people, even when this can be detrimental to me.

• Is your family practising or are they cultural?
  • My family are practising but, mix culture with the deen

• Information about your family – siblings etc?
  • I live with my mum and dad
  • I have two brothers, one younger and the other older

• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning?
  • I can read with tajweed but, I am still working on it

• What languages can you speak?
  • English, Urdu and Mirpuri

• Level of usage of social media?
  • I have Instagram and snapchat
  • Accounts are on private and sisters who know me personally only have access to my account.

• Do you pluck your eyebrows?
  • No

• Do you wear makeup when you go out?

Only on functions but very light.

• Do you watch movies / listen to music?

I do not listen to music but can be in environments where it is being played e.g family and friends

I do occasionally watch the odd movie but try to avoid this

• Can you cook?

Yes

• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES No Alhamdulilah

• What age range are you looking for? 25-29

• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse?
  • Deen
  • Understanding
  • Financial stability

• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must?
  • Must have a full beard

• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion?
  • Yes

• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for?
  • Read his salah regularly and has a passion for seeking knowledge of the deen and is currently involved in this

• Give 3 personality traits that you look for?
  • Patient
  • Humerous
  • Understanding

• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand?
  • Pride
  • Short-temper
  • Materialistic

• Are you open to someone who has been married before?

No

• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage?

No

• Would you consider a divorcee with children?

No

• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him?

Yes

• Would you consider someone who watches movies?

Yes

• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this?

A man should have gheerah over his wife where would want her to free mix or leave the house dresses in a manner that will attract attention. His wife is for his eyes only and he is her protector. She should also have gheera over her husband as this increases love between spouses. They must be willing to speak on this manner and help each other understand why they feel this is important.

• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity?

Yes

• Would you consider living with your inlaws?

Yes

• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for?

1 year

• Would you marry a revert?

Yes

• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues?

Yes but, this must be made clear and the details shared

• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?

I am looking for a spouse who is taller than me.

• Eye Colour: brown
• Hair Colour: brown
• Height: 5''3
• Build: Average, proportional, some say slim

• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies:

Bismillah.

I come from a closely knit family, my relationship with my parents is excellent Alhamdulillah. My father is an approachable gentleman. My mum is alright too. May Allah preserve them. 

I try to adhere to the Quran and Sunnah according to the understanding of the Salafus Salih seeking a balance in everything I do. I do not follow one particular madhab but always try to implement the authentic sunnah regardless of which madhab it belongs to.

It's difficult to talk about oneself without sounding self righteous but I will try and portray an honest representation of myself. I try to fulfil me obligations towards Allah by praying on time and with mindfulness. Hayaa is of utmost importance to me so I do not talk to non mahaarim men unnecessarily. Neither do I mix with my cousins. I am quite 'strict' when it comes to segregation and would like my husband to have some gheerah. As a family, we do not attend mixed gatherings so ideally I would like to marry in to a family who respect this principle.

• Favourite Islamic Speakers: Abu Suhaib, Sheikh Faisal al Jaasim, Sheikh sulayman aruhaylee, Mohammed al Maliki, Tim Humble

• Favourite Islamic Books: Patience and gratitude, kitab atawheed, usool athalatha

• Do you wear the headscarf? yes
• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? yes
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? yes

• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? never

• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam? Have been seeking knowledge from my local masjid (luton islamic center) for the last 9 years. They hold regular classes on aqeedah, fiqh and other topics

• How long have you been practising? 9 years

• Level of “secular” education? degree

• Are you currently working? If so, where? Used to work in the masjid, now i work from home as a teacher

• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible. Work from home if and when time permits but my primary focus is my home and family.

• How soon are you looking to marry? tomorrow lol

• Are you willing to relocate? yes

• Describe yourself in 3 words? empathetic, conscientious, softy pants lol

• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have: altruistic, determined, insightful

• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have; pushover, constantly putting other peoples needs before mine, care about people who don't care about me.

• Is your family practising or are they cultural? practising

• Information about your family – siblings etc? mum, dad, brother, sister

• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning? can recite with tajweed as i teach tajweed

• What languages can you speak? english and broken urdu

• Level of usage of social media? hate social media, use it minimally and fear allah in my interactions

• Do you pluck your eyebrows? no

• Do you wear makeup when you go out? no

• Do you watch movies / listen to music? no

• Can you cook? yes and very well according to my mother

• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES

no alhamdulillah

• What age range are you looking for? 27-34

• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse? aqeedah, kindness, financial stability

• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must? as long as he doesn't trim it shorter than a fist length, I do not mind

• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion? yes

• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for? This is difficult because I have met brothers who have been students of knowledge and hufaadh but they showed basic common courtesy and lack of manners. I'm just looking for a softy spoken, kind hearted man. Allah is kind and He loves kindness. I have high expectations with regards to how he treats me and my family. I would also like him to be striving to do more than just the bare minimum.

• Give 3 personality traits that you look for? affectionate, well mannered, good listener, attentive, funny

• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand? confrontational, selfish, myopic

• Are you open to someone who has been married before? yes

• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage? no

• Would you consider a divorcee with children? no

• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him? no

• Would you consider someone who watches movies? depends which ones. I don't mind if it's mary poppins but nothing with magic or profanity

• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this? He should feel protective over his wife and not want her to go out unnecessarily, make sure she is modestly dressed

• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity? yes

• Would you consider living with your inlaws? yes as long as there are no brother in laws in the home

• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for? 6 years

• Would you marry a revert? yes

• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues? yes

• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?

• What age range are you looking for? 25-37

• Eye Colour: dark brown
• Hair Colour: black
• Height: 5ft
• Build: petite

• A Bit About Yourself – personality / hobbies:

I attend classes at green lane masjid, I enjoy pottery and jewellery making courses and as a hobby therapy classes for sisters working for women’s consortium. In addition, I enjoy reading books on personal development and currently completing a psychology course on Bilal Philips website.

• Favourite Islamic Speakers: bilal Philips, abdul Raheem green

• Favourite Islamic Books: friends of allah and friends of shaytaan – books ahmad ibn tahmiyyah

• Do you wear the headscarf? yes

• Do you wear the abaya/jilbab? No
• Do you wear the niqab / gloves? no

• I am assuming you pray 5x a day – if you do not, please do not use this service. In the last 12 months – how many times would you say you have missed a prayer? 10

• Level of knowledge / seeking knowledge of Islam? Consider myself as intermediate

• How long have you been practising? 5 years

• Level of “secular” education? Bsc

• Are you currently working? If so, where? Birmingham – chemical company

• Do you want to work after marriage? Provide as many details as possible. If my husband wishes that I don’t work. Then ill go according to his discretion.

• How soon are you looking to marry? Soon as possible

• Are you willing to relocate? yes

• Describe yourself in 3 words? Articulate, creative and sensible.

• Give 3 Strengths That You Think You Have: educated in pharmaceutical and psychology, practicing Islam on a daily basis, positive person.

• Mention 3 Weaknesses That You Have: health weaknesses – however manageable, lack of family support

• Is your family practising or are they cultural? Cultural – however I am not

• Information about your family – siblings etc? 5

• Can you recite the Quran with tajweed? Are you learning? yes

• What languages can you speak? Kashmiri, english

• Level of usage of social media? minimal

• Do you pluck your eyebrows? yes

• Do you wear makeup when you go out? minimal

• Do you watch movies / listen to music? no

• Can you cook? yes

• Do you have any health problems that you know of – INCLUDING RUQYAH RELATED ISSUES : motor and sensory neuropathy, prolong qt and evil eye- however im able to manage Al hamdu lilah

• What age range are you looking for? 30-37

• What are the 3 most important things in a potential spouse? practises Islam and god-fearing. Caring and considerate

• Would you prefer a man with a short / full beard? Is this a preference or a must? I Don’t mind

• Trousers above the ankles – is this obligatory in your opinion? Yes – it is islamically, however I don’t mind

• Describe the level of practising that you think you are looking for? Must pray 5x a day regularly remembers Allah.

• Give 3 personality traits that you look for? Generous, considerate, compassionate

• Give 3 personality traits that you cannot stand? Lack of self-control, selfish, egotistic

• Are you open to someone who has been married before? yes

• Would you consider being in a polygamous marriage? no

• Would you consider a divorcee with children?no

• If the brother listens to music – would you consider him? yes

• Would you consider someone who watches movies? yes

• What level of gheerah should a man have? Explain this? Moderate – not jealous where it bring out bad character, however even gheerah to show protectivity.

• Would you marry someone of a different ethnicity? yes

• Would you consider living with your inlaws? yes

• How long should as a minimum, should he have been practising for? 2 years

• Would you marry a revert? Yes – willing to consider

• Would you consider marrying someone with ruqyah related issues? no

• If there’s anything else that you are looking for – please mention it below?